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Rimba - BDSM Hot Wax Candle - Large - Red
RimbaThis large wax candle melts at low temperature and is therefore ideal for SM games without risk of burning.With a whip afterwards, the candle wax o...
View full detailsRimba - BDSM Hot Wax Candle - Large - Black
RimbaThis wax candle melts at low temperature and is therefore ideal for SM games without the risk of burning.The candle wax is then smeared off with a ...
View full detailsRimba - Hot Wax SM Candles 3 Pieces
RimbaRimba Bondage Play, 3 sm candles in a box. The candles are made of 90% paraffin, 3% fragrance and 1% colour pigment.
Kamasutra - Massage Candle - Strawberry Dreams
KamasutraKamasutra's massage candle melts from candle wax to massage oil in a heartbeat, sliding onto your loved one's skin for a sensual, smooth-as-silk ma...
View full detailsKamasutra - Massage Candle - Tahitian Sandalwood
KamasutraKamasutra's massage candle melts from candle wax to massage oil in a heartbeat, sliding onto your loved one's skin for a sensual, smooth-as-silk ma...
View full detailsShunga - Massage candle - Exotic Green Tea
ShungaA massage and ambience candle in one!Zenitude / Exotic Green Tea- Made from 100% natural oils- Produces an oil that is lukewarm to the touch and do...
View full detailsShunga - Mini Massage Candle - Exotic Green Tea
ShungaLove by candlelight through this candle and massage oil in oneMade from 100% natural oils.Low melting temperature, below 36 degrees celcius.Once me...
View full detailsShunga - Massage Candle - Island Flowers
ShungaThe Shunga Island Flowers Massage Candle combines a warm ambiance with a nourishing massage in one sophisticated product. As soon as the candle is ...
View full detailsLove to Love - Light My Fire - Massage Candle - Lotus Flower
Love to LoveLove to Love – Light My Fire Massage Candle Lotus Flower 65 gLet yourself be warmed by a touch of magic Imagine: a room filled with soft candleligh...
View full detailsJe Joue - The Naughty And Nice Collection - Vibrator Gift set
Je JoueA beautifully packaged sexual wellness gift set, containing the following Je Joue products: Ami Cone training set Ami contains three progressive ...
View full detailsJe Joue - Massage candle - Jasmine & Lily
Je JoueThe nutrient-rich soy and essential oils in these luxurious massage candles will soften, moisturize and rejuvenate the skin, leaving it lightly sce...
View full detailsJe Joue - Massage candle - Ylang Ylang & Mandarin
Je JoueThe nutrient-rich soy and essential oils in these luxurious massage candles will soften, hydrate and rejuvenate the skin, leaving it lightly scente...
View full detailsKamasutra - Massage Candle - Coconut Pineapple
KamasutraKamasutra's massage candle melts from candle wax to massage oil in a heartbeat, sliding onto your loved one's skin for a sensual, smooth-as-silk ma...
View full detailsKamasutra - Massage Candle - Island Passion Fruit
KamasutraTry something new and go for a great massage with this flavored Kamasutra Island Passion Fruit massage candle. Let the candle burn until a liquid f...
View full detailsKamasutra - Massage Candle - Mediterranean Almond
KamasutraBring even more intimacy into your relationship with a wonderfully scented massage candle. Kamasutra Mediterranean Almond is a refreshing blend of ...
View full detailsKamasutra - Massage Candle - Tropical Mango
KamasutraEscape to paradise with this exotic scented candle. The massage candle is made with nourishing coconut oil, soothing shea butter and vitamin E. The...
View full detailsLELO - Massage Candle - Black Pepper & Pomegranate
LELO PersonalFlickering Touch Massage candles are made from natural soy wax, shea butter and apricot kernel oil. The perfumed wax melts into a nice luxurious ma...
View full detailsLELO - Massage Candle Snow - Pear & Cedarwood
LELO PersonalFlickering Touch Massage candles are made from natural soy wax, shea butter, and apricot kernel oil. The scented wax melts into a delicious, luxuri...
View full detailsLELO - Massage Candle - Vanilla & Creme de Cacao
LELO PersonalFlickering Touch Massage candles are made from natural soy wax, shea butter and apricot kernel oil. The perfumed wax melts into a nice luxurious ma...
View full detailsLight My Fire - Luscious Massage candle - Gardenia
Love to LoveLight the fire! Light the candle and be satisfied by its fruity and delicious aroma. Blow out the wick when the wax has turned into massage oil, re...
View full detailsShunga - Massage candle - Aphrodisia Rose
ShungaA massage and mood candle in one. Made from 100% natural oils Produces an oil that is lukewarm to the touch and does not burn the skin Makes the sk...
View full detailsShunga - Massage Candle - Desire Vanilla
ShungaA massage and mood candle in one. Made from 100% natural oils Produces an oil that is lukewarm to the touch and does not burn the skin Makes the sk...
View full detailsShunga - Massage candle - Intoxicating Chocolate
ShungaA massage and mood candle in one. Made from 100% natural oils Produces an oil that is lukewarm to the touch and does not burn the skin Makes the sk...
View full detailsShunga - Massage candle - Libido Exotic Fruit
ShungaA massage and mood candle in one. Made from 100% natural oils Produces an oil that is lukewarm to the touch and does not burn the skin Makes the sk...
View full detailsTemperature play revolves around the deliberate use of heat and cold to stimulate the senses. A warm drop of wax, a cold metal toy, or an ice cube gliding across the skin creates a completely different experience than pressure or impact. It is precisely the contrast between hot and cold that makes temperature play so special.
What is temperature play?
Temperature play—also known as wax play—is a form of sensation play in which heat and cold are used to stimulate the skin in various ways. Because of the strong response of the skin’s temperature receptors, even small temperature differences can feel surprisingly intense.
Temperature play can start very gently with a warm massage candle or be expanded to include special wax play candles, chilled metal toys, or ice. Alternating between warm and cold stimuli creates an intense contrast that heightens the skin’s sensitivity.
Types of temperature play
SM candles and wax play
Special SM candles are designed for wax play and melt at a lower temperature than regular household candles. This allows the warm wax to be safely dripped onto the skin when the instructions are followed. Always start with sufficient distance between the candle and the skin and gradually build up the intensity.
Massage candles
Massage candles produce a warm massage oil that feels pleasant on the skin. They’re ideal for relaxation, romantic massages, and as an accessible introduction to temperature play.
Ice and Cold Stimulation
Ice cubes are the simplest way to add cold stimulation. Slowly run an ice cube over the skin or use chilled metal accessories for a longer-lasting cold sensation. Alternating between cold and heat creates a striking contrast in sensation.
Cupping
Cupping sets combine vacuum with temperature stimulation. The cups can be preheated or used at room temperature, creating a unique combination of pressure and heat.
Safe Use of Temperature Play
Use only candles specifically designed for wax play or massage. Regular household candles get much hotter and can cause burns. Always test the temperature of the wax on yourself first before using it on a partner.
Do not apply hot wax to the face, eyes, mucous membranes, or damaged skin. Never apply ice to the same spot for an extended period to prevent cold injury. Communicate clearly about boundaries beforehand and agree on a safeword.
Frequently Asked Questions About Temperature Play
What is the difference between an SM candle and a massage candle?
A massage candle melts into warm massage oil and is intended for relaxation and gentle warmth. An SM candle for wax play provides a more intense sensation of heat and is specifically designed for temperature play.
How far should you hold a candle above the skin?
Start at a distance of about 30 centimeters. The closer you hold the candle to the skin, the hotter the wax will be. Always test the temperature first and build up the intensity gradually.
Can you combine ice and wax?
Yes. Many enthusiasts alternate between warm wax and cold stimulation to enhance the contrast between the two sensations. Always proceed gently and pay close attention to the recipient’s reaction.
Is temperature play suitable for beginners?
Yes. Massage candles and ice cubes offer a safe and accessible introduction. Use products specifically designed for temperature play and always follow the instructions for use.