Gags

A gag restricts speech and thereby immediately shifts the balance of power during a BDSM session. Once words are taken away, only body language, sounds, and eye contact remain. For many people, it is precisely that sense of control and surrender that is the main appeal of a gag.

What are gags?

A gag, also known as a mouth gag, is a BDSM accessory worn in or in front of the mouth to restrict speech or keep the mouth open. Gags are used as part of bondage and D/s play, where control, submission, and communication through body language take center stage.

There are various types of gags, each with its own function and experience. Some restrict speech almost completely, while others keep the mouth open. Which type is best depends on the desired experience and the wearer’s comfort.

Types of Gags

Ball Gag

The ball gag is the most well-known type. A silicone ball is secured behind the head with an adjustable strap, making speech virtually impossible. Silicone models are comfortable, easy to clean, and therefore a good choice for beginners.

Ring gag

A ring gag keeps the mouth open by means of a ring that rests between the teeth. This type is often used when the mouth needs to remain accessible during a session. Strapless versions are easy to put on and take off.

Dildo gag

A dildo gag has a phallic shape that is worn in the mouth. Some models feature a second dildo on the outside, making them suitable for specific forms of BDSM role-play. They are often combined with a collar and leash.

Strapless gag

A strapless gag stays in place without a headband thanks to the shape of the mouthpiece. This makes it quick to put on and take off. However, a strapless model generally offers less stability than a gag with an adjustable strap.

Mouth gag with harness

A mouth gag with a full-head harness stays very securely in place. Some models feature additional D-rings that allow them to be combined with a collar, blindfold, or other bondage accessories.

Safe Use of Gags

Because speaking with a gag is limited or impossible, clear safety agreements are essential. Always agree on a nonverbal stop signal in advance—such as a hand gesture or dropping an object—and test it before the session begins.

During use, regularly check the wearer’s breathing, comfort, and body language. Never use a gag if you have a cold, feel nauseous, or have breathing difficulties, and remove it immediately if the wearer feels unwell.

Clean gags after every session with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner. Silicone models can often be sterilized according to the manufacturer’s instructions. Check straps and buckles regularly for wear and tear.

Frequently Asked Questions About Gags

How do you agree on a stop signal while wearing a gag?

Use a nonverbal signal, such as a hand gesture, dropping an object, or another prearranged sign. Always agree on this before the session and test it first without the gag.

What is the difference between a ball gag and a ring gag?

A ball gag restricts speech by largely filling the mouth. A ring gag, on the other hand, keeps the mouth open. Both provide very different experiences and are used for different types of BDSM play.

What size ball gag should I choose?

It’s best to start with a small ball. A ball gag that’s too large can tire the jaw more quickly and be less comfortable during longer sessions.

Are gags suitable for beginners?

Yes. It’s best to choose a small silicone ball gag and establish clear safety agreements beforehand. This way, you can safely explore this form of bondage.